Westerman has some advice for couples who are planning on working with a DJ for their Kansas City wedding. "Remember that your reception should be looked at like a gift to your friends and family members," says Westerman. " So DO work with your DJ to make it fun and memorable for everyone invited.  Planning the day out with your DJ in advance is essential to ensure that everything runs smoothly."    With that in mind, DON'T make your song playlist all about you.  Work with your DJ to make sure music is being played that everybody will dance to.  Your guests will thank you.